Enjoy a Simple Meal (Or Life)

On news and on radio, you will see or hear that people has gettling bored with the current stay at home situation for the COVID-19. What to do next?

Its my 6th weeks Stay at home now, now getting used to staying home weekend.

Wake up at 9 plus, my breakfast is a Pumpkin muffin that I made yesterday, do my exercise at home by doing Star jump and running around from living room to kitchen for almost 50 times (home too small), cook my meatball pasta

(Mum said that reminds her of Ikea’s meatball!), doing some small crochet craft, …etc. All are small little things that would occupy me the whole day. Who said there is nothing to do at home. The problem is whether you know what to find and what is your attitude when you are finding.

Compare to a normal week of working, after 9 to 5 office work, weekend is a relax day for me to coach into my chair and play games and watch show on Handphone whole day.

 

 

Did a photo stitch of what I have been doing the last two weeks. I think the crochet I did were more than last whole year before this COVID-19.

I guess this period give me some time to look into myself and realize what I should be doing to make me happy. The interaction with people tends to have its good and bad side. The daily office politics and city life  had somehow blinded my heart and sole and forget how to prioritize my time to doing things that made me happy.

 

 

God is fair to everyone, each has 24 hours per day. How to use it is subjected to individual. People claimed no time all the time, by not realizing they do not know how to manage time.

Well another week later, I will be back to the usual office working life. I wonder if I can cope with it. Wish that I will stay at present feeling and sustain prolong.

What You Can do During This Period

The COVID-19 pandemic has caused a lot of people retrenched unexpectedly. Other than to work out on the financial impact that you and your family will encounter, your emotion and fear of what is going to be next is another issue that you have to look into. Here I’m sharing my own experience from the past, as stated in the previous post below:

I got retrenched  December 2008.  Ever since I started working in May 1993, I haven’t got myself such a long break before. If I counted the miserable  6 weeks of retrenchment benefit I’ve got (with no 13 months pay), I would consider myself lucky to get paid for the last 6 weeks of long break I had. Some times you have to got yourself think in a positive way in order to overcome the bad feelings you had.. 😛

Well I would like to write about what I had been doing for the past 2 months. Hope from my experience could help some of you out there who also like me to overcome the fear and the resentment of wondering what to do without a proper job.

I have been all the while working full time for my past 15 years. The only breaks I had was the annual leave of 14 days to get out of the country to go tour once a year or two. Annual leaves were very precious for an employee. Since I’ve got the chance to got myself a break I should have a plan to use it wisely.

First of all, I must make sure I need to get myself occupy on things that I like to do. If you have a lot of free time and do not know how to make use of it, you will soon end up thinking what is your worth of living in this world and begin to wonder if you are that insignificant and may lead you to negative thoughts. I remembered the first thing I did on my first official jobless Monday was to go to the library book to borrow some self help book to regain my self worth.

Your mindset is very important to decide on what you want to plan ahead with your life. I got this book – Pearls & Gems by Roger Foxall. There were a lot of phrases and examples stated in the book that help to pull you through all kinds of tides you encountered in your life. For example, I like this especially that related to my current situation under 12 Ways to a Better You :

“..9. Do not tolerate people, jobs and situations that make you feel inadequate. If you cannot change them or yourself enough to make you feel more worthwhile, walk out or pass them by. Life is too short to waste time on downers, whether it be an individual or a company to work for.

.. 8. Remember that sometimes failure and disappointment are blessings in disguise, telling you the goals were not right for you, the effort was not worth it, and a bigger let-down later on might be avoidable.”

Some way down the road I may find myself a job offer that was not suitable or got turned down from a high profile job. I just have to tell myself that it could be blessing in disguise.

After I have regained my self worth, I then do a brain storming on what I am good at. If you are familiar with using mind mapping technique, this would help you to brainstorm to discover more about yourself. You can also get help from your families and close friends and ask them what they think you are good at. Also think of if there are some dreams of  you hiding in one of those hidden corners that you have long forgotten.  Think of what are the things you started complaining when you were busy: When I have the time, I will do this and that… Start making a list of things you would want to do and set some goals that you would want to achieve.

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Looking back at what I have posted more that 10 years ago, I see that I am still the same me. Never let my mood be affected by the current situation, Stay at Home, COVID-19, Circuit Breaker, etc ultimately will be over.

Just completed my 3rd crochet doll. It reminded me of my trip to Phuket, Kao Siok, Koh Samui, last year Dec 2019 with my friends. When I shared this picture with my trip mates, they missed the beaches. Wonder how much longer can we go back again..

Take Each Day As It Comes, Life Is Stressful Enough.

Do not Look Back And Grieve Over The Past, There’s Nothing Much You Can Do About It.

Do Not Worry About The Future, For It Has Yet To Come.

As Long As It Is Called Today, Cherish It!

Live This Day As If It Was Your Last, And You Will Find Each Day Worth Living For.

 

Another Circuit Breaker Day

So what am I doing at 10:30pm on a Thursday night?

Its been 3 weeks since the CB started in Singapore, all are avoiding going out on street due to this pandemic COVID-19. Everyone is experiencing this lock down at home first in a lifetime.  I have working from home during this period, going to office only 1 day per week. For this week exceptionally I did not go to office as there isn’t much things for me to work in office. Guess I am used to working from home now. I’m used to the lifestyle of  working early, prepare my 3 meals and go to market once a week in the morning. Yes I cook my three meals almost every day till I am bored with my own style of cooking.

Today is a public holiday in Singapore. I have been staying on my bed most of my time using my laptop to learn trading and surfing the website.

Then I came across my deserted blog for years, realizing how lazy I am. Where are my enthusiasm in blogging goes to?

On the radio, the DJ has been interviewing a called-in listener and asked her how she spend her time during this CB period. She answered that other than going to office to work ( due to her work is classified under essential and thus can go back to office), the rest of the time is ‘Nua’ at home surfing HP on social media like facebook, instagram, etc. ‘Nua’ in our dialect means sit comfortably and doing nothing, like a coach potatoes. I guess I am also doing that most of my off time when I am not WFH, cooking, crocheting, baking and doing housework.  But at least I tried my best to going down to my neighborhood park to walk three times a week.

 

Yes I have recently pick up another hobby: Baking. Well I reply on my Breadmaker machine to bake my bread. You can said it is kind of cheating to rely on breadmaker to make bread. Well, I did knead my own dough before but I am not always successful in making the bread. Using the breadmaker to knead the dough would be much easier and less time consuming. 😛

Also spent time to crochet socks for my mum for her birthday present.  Will be posting for of my crochet work on my next post soon.  Stay tune and good night! (11:14 pm)